Community guidelines

What we expect

• Use your own identity. Do not impersonate another person or a brand.
• Keep plans and messages respectful and relevant to the people invited.
• Share only photos you have the right to share, including your own profile photo.
• Respect someone's decision to decline a plan, ignore a request, or block you.

Not allowed

• Harassment, hate speech, slurs, threats, or targeting someone with repeated unwanted contact.
• Sexual content, nudity, or imagery of another person shared without their permission.
• Spam, advertising, recruiting, or using plans to sell anything.
• Using the product to find or contact strangers, or to collect personal information about other people.
• Impersonating a child, a parent, or anyone else to gain access to a plan.

Server-side text filtering checks display names, plan titles and notes, and chat messages for a defined set of prohibited language. Direct writes are subject to the same text checks. Broader conduct rules rely on reports and operator review, not automatic detection of every form of harassment, spam, or impersonation.

Profile photos

A new profile photo is stored privately and reviewed by a person before it appears. Until then your previous photo (or your initials) stays visible. Photos are reviewed within three business days. If a photo is not accepted you can upload a different one, and your current photo is unaffected.

Reporting and blocking

Reporting and blocking are separate actions. A report sends the person and your reason to the operator and never blocks anyone by itself; we review reports within three business days. Blocking takes effect immediately: you stop seeing each other's plans, messages, and Activity, the friendship and any pending request are removed, and unblocking does not restore them. Blocking or reporting from Profile, a friend row, a plan, or an Activity entry uses the same controls.

When rules are broken

• A flagged plan title or note is cleared, and a flagged chat message is deleted.
• A prohibited display name is cleared and the account is suspended.
• A suspended account cannot sign in to the product, use any screen, or upload photos; the person sees an account-status page explaining the suspension.
• Resolved reports, finished photo reviews, and completed or cancelled deletion requests are kept for 90 days and then removed by our routine maintenance purge. See the retention window.